Category Archives: Relationship Advice

#DearFutureWife- Guest Writer Lee Lewis

Dear Future Wife,

these past few years we have shared more than just pure love, we explored different periods in time, visited the moments of universes in our souls, and walked in the direction of life together, remembrance of saying hello to your heart, kissing within yourDear Future Wife - Lee Lewis mind, and making love to your thoughts, I remember the yesterday’s, and embrace the visions of our future, you listen to me without needing words, because the rhythm of hearts plays the same songs, leaving the feeling inside me of being home, you’re beautiful inside at out, and have become the foundation, we are building, for the love that is smiling to wrinkle in time causing our union, future wife, I love the testimony giving to me, by your soul…

By: Lee A Lewis

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Take Acountablility

Ladies, are we holding ourselves accountable for what happens to us or are we playing the victim?

Gentlemen, same question for you?

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Last night I saw a shooting star. And I imagined you right here with me in my arms. Loves prisoner held captive by your simple charm. I’m so lucky baby I found you.  You remind me of rainy days with every drop bringing me home for better ways. All my friends keep telling me it’s just a phase. When springtime comes they’ll see just what it do. You make it better then the riches I might have. You bring me joy when the days went bad.  Show me that pretty smile on your face and all my cares seem to be erased. Nothing like the way you look at me. You stole my heart now I’m complete. Continue reading #DearFutureWife



Dear Future WifeDear Future Wife,

From the image of perfection, you were made. Created in our King’s likeness and formed from the rib of him. And even though a piece of me is missing, I’m at peace knowing that you are safely abiding in Him. I know you are clothed with strength and dignity, and you laugh without fear of the future. When you speak, your words are wise, and instruction is given firmly with kindness. You carefully watch everything in your Continue reading #DearFutureWife


Dating Apps

Is it just me or have dating sites become the new fuck spot?

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Are You Willing to Learn How to Love?

We assume by definition we know how to love. The reality of it all is we learn to love from experiences that allow us to observe love.  Our views of love can be skewed depending on the manner in which love was presented to us. I myself came from a broken home with abuse. My father would hit my mother rather violently. A few days later he would buy her something, say he will never do it again and tell her he loved her.  She would stay in this situation for 7 years. Imagine how different I thought love was. I thought love was controlling, abusive, apologetic and happy.

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Dating in a Microwave Society

Nowadays with the advancement of technology expectations from people for people are ridiculous. Especially time wise. With all the new dating apps and the old dating sites, with single mixers and lounges becoming ultra popular people have depersonalized and expedited the dating process. Continue reading Dating in a Microwave Society


Your Dating and a Good Man……

How do you tear down the walls built around a woman’s heart?

After she has been continually hurt by past relationships……..

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Why I Don’t Date Guys with Mother Issues

Most of the time women are always diagnosed by men for having Daddy Issues. But no one seems to ever talk about the men who have Mother Issues. Being a woman who seems to attract men that have mother issues, it has made me realize this complex is alive and well in both men and women. Continue reading Why I Don’t Date Guys with Mother Issues


4 Ways to Make Yourself Available to Others Who Are Single Too!

Hey guys and dolls!

Let’s talk a little about the different ways we can meet people to begin building a relationship with or even start dating. Call me old fashion but I love the traditional forms of meeting other singles. However, going to a good happy hour (alone), accepting the classic friends/family hookup and even online dating could be all you need to meet your potential soulmate. Don’t get me wrong these options I’m providing may not be your cup of tea.  But try to keep an open mind. You never know which one may work for you if you simply try something new. Continue reading 4 Ways to Make Yourself Available to Others Who Are Single Too!