Take The Lead

As we encourage our selves to live our days at the absolute best of our abilities, questions still remain. Not questioning one’s ability to be great or lack thereof. More along the lines of questioning the female standard. Hear me out.. Look at it as a broad male perspective.

For years, men have been placed in a bubble. This bubble is filled with social standards, sexual orientations, judgment on the use of shivery, questioning of manhood, and physical structure. Meaning, he should make the first move if he likes what he see.

Not so fast!! Social standards are what we live by but should not define the way we exist. Ladies…If he looks good, smells good, and has displayed that very humor you live for, then say something to him. According to the topic of conversation during “Girl Talk”  at the many of slumber parties you attended from the rightful age of 11, you should definitely say something.

Take The Lead

Life has evolved and so should we. Don’t get me wrong, men should take the initiative and be more creative. That has to do with maturity and were not going there today. Either way, a simple hello and glance of appreciation should be enough for you to know whats up. I believe a females pride is way stronger than the average male. For some reason, it’s not associated with the female prowess as an actual trait.

Listen, men are going to be men. Inconsistent, unappreciative, and at times..can’t compromise on the simplest things. Should that stop you from being compassionate, understanding, warm, and highly receptive to basic male gestures? I need you to understand that chemistry is manifested from the effort you give. Being receptive to love can open up opportunities beyond the boundaries we set. Wait!! There’s that word again. Love. Even when we don’t believe in you and cant understand the impact of your name, you live in conversation. Either way, I’m not going there. You get my point though. It’s easy, you must understand that we are all equal. I’m speaking of us men and you, the woman. How hard is it to understand that you’re human?

Take The Lead

Should that stop you from being compassionate, understanding, warm, and highly receptive to basic male gestures? I need you to understand that chemistry is manifested from the effort you give. Being receptive to love can open up opportunities beyond the boundaries we set. Wait!! There’s that word again. Love..Even when we don’t believe in you and can’t understand the impact of your name, you live in conversation. Either way, I’m not going there. You get my point, right?

Take The Lead

I believe the talented Literacy Legend said it best, ” I like what I like and Love what I Love”. He usually says it best. I mean, “You can’t receive what you seek if you’re not receptive to the change that it may bring, the fear it may cause or the success you deserve”. Remember, opinions of others will always keep us at odds. I suppose we will never understand. My answer to those questions are my opinions. Who am I? Right now, I’m the guy realizing the longer I wait in this line for a coffee I’m sure my boss isn’t gonna like. The woman in front of me will never understand the quality of man that stands behind her seeking good coffee and not love.

Take The Lead

Written By Guest Writer ~Legend

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